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A childhood belief about sex

In the 3rd grade a few of us girls and boys paired off declaring we were going steady. Trying desperately to emulate teenagers' "going steady" behavior, we went to the movies sitting with arms around each other. When my boyfriend put his arm around me, hand hanging down towards my (barely developed) breast, I remember having panicky thoughts like "Oh my gosh, is this sex? Oh no, I'm going to get pregnant." For weeks after, I spent hours in front of the mirror wondering if my tummy was getting big and how I would explain this to my parents.

— pm

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