I had very complex beliefs about marriage. I thought that, when a girl was ready to marry (in her late teens or early twenties), she would put on a wedding dress, get in a van, and have her parents drive her to the nearest city, bouquet in hand. She would then walk the streets of the city asking any man she saw to marry her, and, once she found someone, they would go to the nearest church and be married on the spot.
A childhood belief about marriage

others believed things like this
- I used to think I was going to marry my mom, even though my dad was already married to her.— nick
- That the city of Christchurch was a big church which everybody lived in.— Christine
- When I was little, I thought that you had to marry someone who was born on the same date as you.— Lauren
- I used to believe you had to marry your siblings when you grew up.— Cade Whitbourn
- I used to believe that if you kissed someone you HAD to marry them. Even in the movies.Anon
- When I was at primary school I used to believe you could only marry someone who was the same height as you!— Lucy