sex

I used to believe…

When me and my best friend first started our periods niether of us used tampons (my mom was scared i would lose my virginty if i did lol).

My friend was the first to use one cuz she got her period on vacation and afterward she was telling me about it. She said at first she started putting it in the wrong hole and i was shocked cuz i thought there was only one hole down there! i was about 12.

I used to believe…

When I was little, I noticed that some couples would have their first kid a year after they were married. This led me to believe... you get the picture. One day, my resource room teacher and I were having a conversation. Her and her boyfriend were engaged and I said "a married couple always have their first baby a year after their married." She just laughed and said how cute I was.

i used to think that a boy is suposed to kiss a girl and she gets pregnant the next day.

I never thought there was any such thing as "pubic hair" When I was 10 I started getting some and was afraid that it would grow as long as my regular hair and I would have to braid it and use shampoo!

I used to believe…

when i was young i believed that a blowjob was when someone blew on your penis

I used to believe…

My Grandmother told me that if a girl kisses a boy too soon it will make her have an early and difficult ministration. So I saved my first kiss for when I had my first period.

I used to believe…

Up until the sixth grade, I thought that it wasn't possible for a girl to give birth when she's under the age of 21 (somehow, I was convinced that 21 was the age when you became an adult). I was horrified when I learned the truth in sex ed!!!

I was really mean to my little brother, constantly giving him the pants pull down, taking off his swim trunks in the pool and telling my whole family about it. So i guess he wanted revenge when he took my top off of my bikini. When he saw me i guess he thought i had over grown testicles in the wrong spot.

I used to believe…

When I was young I thought sex happened on accident. So people could be kissing or talking and then after a while one of them would be like, "oh, I think we just had sex". I thought that because I knew how sex worked I just didn't know why so I asked my mom. She said it just happenes and that really scared me, sex could happen at any time. Boy was I surprised when I flipped through a friend's romance novel.

I always understood that a man and woman had to 'sleep togather' for the woman to become pregnant... but until I was 12 and learned the whole truth, I thought that just meant they had to sleep in the same bed, nothing else involved. I was so scared when I had to share my dad's bed at his parent's house since their rope bed wasn't made up yet. I was worried I'd get pregnant!

I used to believe…

when i was young and waiting for my mom to pick me up from carpool my friend julia said that her sister was playing hide and go seek and said "sex" instead of "six" while counting. I not knowing what it was was enlightened by her being only told that sex was when a man and a woman sat in a bed naked. I wondered that for the longest time.

When I was still little I was playing barbies with my wiser friend katrina, her little sis Ashley, and our friends Sarah and Whitney. While we were playing we found that we were short of tops for our dolls and said that it would be unfair so we made our barbie world a nudist colony. I was playing the dolls brock and britney. katrina knew what sex REALLY was and made her dolls actually be ontop of one another. I not wanting to be a bay did the same also. sarah was still dumbstruck at what "it" was as we referred it to as. katrinas mother opened the door which we had shut earlier (we knew we werent supposed to) and was fusssing at us for shutting it. then she saw our dolls tied ontop of each other and started saying that katrina and ashley were mean and what they did was mean. i frantically triend to dress my barbies and started crying because we were out of beds and so they had to share and that the dolls lived in a nudist colony.

my friend ashley found a condom (open) in her dads drawer and used it as a birdbath for her beenie babies forcing their beaks into the water filled birdbath. it got stuck on one of their noses and asked her mom to take the birdbath off of her birdie's "nose" hahahaha.

my all-knowing friend katrina confused condoms and birthcontrol patches and i called them patches for the longest time. another time when i was playing at her house we played "hospital" and she would go into the bathroom stick a babydoll down her jeans and grunt a little and take it back out. she would then hand the doll to me and say that it was my turn. i didnt know what to do so i held the doll and sat on the toliet waiting for her to come get me. i finally came out and she asked me what took me so long and i said that the baby was asleep (which it was with its eyes closed) and wouldnt come out.

i used to think that if i touched myself or achem fingered myself i would break something and wouldnt be able to have a baby or wear a tampon.

my parents never talked to me about sex or storks so i often wonder how they thought i figured it out.

I used to believe…

When my little sister was about 4 years old, my mom was explaining pregnancy to her. My mom told her about the baby growing inside the mother, how it starts as an egg and grows into a person and then she mentioned that it grew in a sac filled with water. My little sister got a horrified look on her face and my mom, obviously worried, asked her "What's wrong?" and my sister said, "but aren't there sharks and fishes in there?"

I used to believe…

When I was little I was subject to those horrible talk shows that come on in the afternoon (like Maury, Jerry Springer, ect.). I would always hear about people having sex, and it's never a good thing on those shows. Naturally I figured sex was the worste thing in the world and no matter what it was I vowed never to do it. When I was 9, my dad explained to me what sex really is and... I was feeling pretty dumb

I used to believe…

When I was little, I asked about how a woman got pregnant. My mom explained that a man planted a seed in a woman and it grew like in a garden. For years I thought there was dirt and plants in my moms belly and my dad was planting seeds there and this scared me!

I use to believe that my sibblings and i were all in my moms stomach at the same time, and that the only reason why they were older then me was because i was sleeping and everyone just came out befor me...so they were just older.

I used to believe…

When I was about 6 or 7 I used to think that you just GOT pregnant. One of our neighbors was pregnant at the time and I remember asking her if she hoped to have another baby after this one was born. I remember her telling me that they (she and hubby) were not going to have anymore and I was thinking to myself, well , how do you know!